Christina Websell wrote:
"Joy" wrote in message
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One can accept a cat as he or she is, but that still doesn't mean it
doesn't
hurt when a cat won't warm up to you. I know my son was hurt because
Nanki-Poo (RB) seemed to be afraid of him, even though most animals
gravitate to my son. I still feel sad that neither Pickles nor Waffles
will cuddle with me in bed, but I know they won't change, and I accept
that.

I took 5 or 6 years before Boyfie would get on my knee. Now I cannot stop
him. Don't give up hope for bed cats.
Tweed

Often bouncing onto your stomach in the middle of the night, when you
have a full bladder! ;-)