"Rhonda"

Finding another home would be great, but if you can't -- there are many
spay and release programs.

So she would be spayed and then released back out to the wild or to me? I
have never heard of that.

I would keep feeding her, at any rate. I just can't stand to see a cat
starve, and it sounds like you can't either!

Lol, I carried a caterpillery thing out of the house this morning rather
than flush it! If she keeps visiting, she will be eating.