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OT Please Spare a Purr For My Dad and Stepmother
Hi all,
This is not a life-threatening situation, as in neither one of them have a terrible illness. They have however been rather hit over the head by life. Upon their return from Mexico, Dad and Glenna came home at two a.m to find their water heater had quit and flooded a large area of their house while they were gone. Bad enough that it had to break, but really awful that it did it when they were away, at least a week before they came back. Fortunately, they have homeowner's insurance, but while the insurance will cover water damage, but not mold damage. Had they been home when it happened, the damage could have been contained, but now the line between what is water damage and what is mold damage appears to be rather arbitrary in the eyes of their insurance agent. Dad says she's the kind of person you really don't want to deal with anyway, and certainly not when your house is temporarily unlivable. Right now, they're living at my mom's house, as she has an extra room, heat, hot water, and a kitchen they can use. They'll be moving into a rental unit for the next three months. A lot of the flooring in the kitchen, dining room, living room and hallway is going to have to be replaced, hence their need to move out. It's really a shame, as this is a beautiful little Spanish style house of 1920's vintage with lovely hardwood floors. In the last two years they did a lot of work on it, adding a study for my dad at one end of the living room. (Yes, I do quietly covet their house, or at least I did before this latest disaster.) They need purrs that the damage is mostly water damage, which the insurance WILL pay for. In the worst case, if the insurance company says it's all mold damage, they WON'T pay for repairs, and they might be forced to sell the house which would break their hearts. They have a huge lot where my stepmother has a nice garden she's been working on for thirty years. It's their single greatest financial assett bought in the early 70's when ordinary people could still buy a nice house, and the chance they could get anything remotely comparable at today's prices is nil. Especially since they're both well past retirement age. So calling all cats, please start your purring engines..... Melissa |
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"Melissa Houle" wrote in message
... Hi all, This is not a life-threatening situation, as in neither one of them have a terrible illness. They have however been rather hit over the head by life. Upon their return from Mexico, Dad and Glenna came home at two a.m to find their water heater had quit and flooded a large area of their house while they were gone. Bad enough that it had to break, but really awful that it did it when they were away, at least a week before they came back. Fortunately, they have homeowner's insurance, but while the insurance will cover water damage, but not mold damage. Had they been home when it happened, the damage could have been contained, but now the line between what is water damage and what is mold damage appears to be rather arbitrary in the eyes of their insurance agent. Dad says she's the kind of person you really don't want to deal with anyway, and certainly not when your house is temporarily unlivable. Right now, they're living at my mom's house, as she has an extra room, heat, hot water, and a kitchen they can use. They'll be moving into a rental unit for the next three months. A lot of the flooring in the kitchen, dining room, living room and hallway is going to have to be replaced, hence their need to move out. It's really a shame, as this is a beautiful little Spanish style house of 1920's vintage with lovely hardwood floors. In the last two years they did a lot of work on it, adding a study for my dad at one end of the living room. (Yes, I do quietly covet their house, or at least I did before this latest disaster.) They need purrs that the damage is mostly water damage, which the insurance WILL pay for. In the worst case, if the insurance company says it's all mold damage, they WON'T pay for repairs, and they might be forced to sell the house which would break their hearts. They have a huge lot where my stepmother has a nice garden she's been working on for thirty years. It's their single greatest financial assett bought in the early 70's when ordinary people could still buy a nice house, and the chance they could get anything remotely comparable at today's prices is nil. Especially since they're both well past retirement age. So calling all cats, please start your purring engines..... Melissa House healing purrs on the way! I hope everything works out for them. As an aside - how nice of your mom to put them up, wow, you were actually raised by grown-ups!!! Hugs, CatNipped |
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Purring and purr-aying are in progress.
If they're unsatisfied with what the insurance agent has to say, can they get a second opinion? Or file an appeal somehow? But here's hoping that won't be necessary. |
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Lots of purrs on the way.
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outpets.com, "Gabey8" gabey8-@-aol-dot-com (formerly dgabriel-at-netaxs-dot-com) wrote: Purring and purr-aying are in progress. If they're unsatisfied with what the insurance agent has to say, can they get a second opinion? Or file an appeal somehow? But here's hoping that won't be necessary. Purrs. These things vary by state, but check the yellow pages, etc., for "independent adjusters", who are much like mediators for such things and can give independent opinions. It's also worth calling the state commissioner of insurance, or whoever regulates insurance, and check on mediation and appeal mechanisms. This is also the sort of thing where TV consumer reporters might find interest. |
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Purring and praying that everything comes out well in the end.
Jazz & his mama -- Irulan from the stars we come to the stars we return from now until the end of time "Melissa Houle" wrote in message ... Hi all, This is not a life-threatening situation, as in neither one of them have a terrible illness. They have however been rather hit over the head by life. Upon their return from Mexico, Dad and Glenna came home at two a.m to find their water heater had quit and flooded a large area of their house while they were gone. Bad enough that it had to break, but really awful that it did it when they were away, at least a week before they came back. Fortunately, they have homeowner's insurance, but while the insurance will cover water damage, but not mold damage. Had they been home when it happened, the damage could have been contained, but now the line between what is water damage and what is mold damage appears to be rather arbitrary in the eyes of their insurance agent. Dad says she's the kind of person you really don't want to deal with anyway, and certainly not when your house is temporarily unlivable. Right now, they're living at my mom's house, as she has an extra room, heat, hot water, and a kitchen they can use. They'll be moving into a rental unit for the next three months. A lot of the flooring in the kitchen, dining room, living room and hallway is going to have to be replaced, hence their need to move out. It's really a shame, as this is a beautiful little Spanish style house of 1920's vintage with lovely hardwood floors. In the last two years they did a lot of work on it, adding a study for my dad at one end of the living room. (Yes, I do quietly covet their house, or at least I did before this latest disaster.) They need purrs that the damage is mostly water damage, which the insurance WILL pay for. In the worst case, if the insurance company says it's all mold damage, they WON'T pay for repairs, and they might be forced to sell the house which would break their hearts. They have a huge lot where my stepmother has a nice garden she's been working on for thirty years. It's their single greatest financial assett bought in the early 70's when ordinary people could still buy a nice house, and the chance they could get anything remotely comparable at today's prices is nil. Especially since they're both well past retirement age. So calling all cats, please start your purring engines..... Melissa |
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CatNipped wrote in message ... "Melissa Houle" wrote in message ... SNIP House healing purrs on the way! I hope everything works out for them. As an aside - how nice of your mom to put them up, wow, you were actually raised by grown-ups!!! Hugs, CatNipped Heh, yes, most of the time, they are. =o) I can't imagine why my mom and dad got married as they just weren't well suited. But they stuck to the marriage for fifteen years before they decided it was time to cut their losses and go their separate ways. My step-mother is a much better match for my dad. But they went about breaking up their marriage in as mature a way as one could hope for, and neither of them bad-mouthed the other to the four of us, and Mom gave Dad plenty of access to us, even though she got custody. She and Glenna get on well, and Dad and Glenna come to family occasions like Christmas and Thanksgiving. It's been nearly forty years now, so they've worked out whatever bitterness may have lingered long ago. Also, my mom has a pretty big house, but spends a lot of time in Santa Cruz with her gentleman friend Mark. So she figured Dad and Glenna might as well use her house since they were in a rather desperate situation. Melissa |
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Melissa Houle wrote:
So calling all cats, please start your purring engines..... Certainly, Melissa. Frank&Nikki purrs on the way for your Dad and stepmother. What a terrible thing to happen. -- Marina, Frank and Nikki marina (dot) kurten (at) pp (dot) inet (dot) fi Pics at http://uk.pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/frankiennikki/ and http://community.webshots.com/user/frankiennikki |
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Purrs on the way. hope the assessor is in a good mood.
-- Sandra |
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