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How do I handle grief?
My wonderful black longhaired kitty named Bear died Sun. evening as the
vet here and I were rushing him to a larger city to get help with his breathing distress. I was so crazy about him and it hurts so bad. I can't stop crying. I want him back but I know thats not possible. |
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"Teddy" wrote in message ... My wonderful black longhaired kitty named Bear died Sun. evening as the vet here and I were rushing him to a larger city to get help with his breathing distress. I was so crazy about him and it hurts so bad. I can't stop crying. I want him back but I know thats not possible. Teddy, I'm so sorry. I know how much it hurts to lose a friend like that. I'm not sure there is a way to "handle" grief, you just have to allow yourself to feel the pain and wait it out. Time will help a little. Having friends you can talk to who understand that losing a loved pet hurts terribly helps. Bear was so lucky to have you and your love and care. He was the luckiest of cats, and of course you will miss him. You did everything you could to help him and take care of him. He is in a place where he cannot suffer now. My heart goes out to you. I still grieve for my baby girl kitty who died in 2001. |
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"Teddy" wrote in message ... My wonderful black longhaired kitty named Bear died Sun. evening as the vet here and I were rushing him to a larger city to get help with his breathing distress. I was so crazy about him and it hurts so bad. I can't stop crying. I want him back but I know thats not possible. Teddy, I'm so sorry. I know how much it hurts to lose a friend like that. I'm not sure there is a way to "handle" grief, you just have to allow yourself to feel the pain and wait it out. Time will help a little. Having friends you can talk to who understand that losing a loved pet hurts terribly helps. Bear was so lucky to have you and your love and care. He was the luckiest of cats, and of course you will miss him. You did everything you could to help him and take care of him. He is in a place where he cannot suffer now. My heart goes out to you. I still grieve for my baby girl kitty who died in 2001. |
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My condolences on your loss.
"Teddy" wrote in message ... My wonderful black longhaired kitty named Bear died Sun. evening as the vet here and I were rushing him to a larger city to get help with his breathing distress. I was so crazy about him and it hurts so bad. I can't stop crying. I want him back but I know thats not possible. |
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My condolences on your loss.
"Teddy" wrote in message ... My wonderful black longhaired kitty named Bear died Sun. evening as the vet here and I were rushing him to a larger city to get help with his breathing distress. I was so crazy about him and it hurts so bad. I can't stop crying. I want him back but I know thats not possible. |
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My wonderful black longhaired kitty named Bear died Sun. evening as the
vet here and I were rushing him to a larger city to get help with his breathing distress. I was so crazy about him and it hurts so bad. I can't stop crying. I want him back but I know thats not possible. I'm very sorry and, as trite as it may sound now, time really will heal your wounds and one day you will be able to remember the good times you had with Bear instead of dwelling on the sad ending. I think our kitties go to Heaven or even the Rainbow Bridge and wait for us so I think you'll meet again. You have to take comfort in knowing you provided him with the best life you could and that you were doing all you could to help him. He had to have known he was loved. Candace (take the litter out before replying by e-mail) See my cats: http://photos.yahoo.com/maccandace "One does not meet oneself until one catches the reflection from an eye other than human." (Loren Eisely) |
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My wonderful black longhaired kitty named Bear died Sun. evening as the
vet here and I were rushing him to a larger city to get help with his breathing distress. I was so crazy about him and it hurts so bad. I can't stop crying. I want him back but I know thats not possible. I'm very sorry and, as trite as it may sound now, time really will heal your wounds and one day you will be able to remember the good times you had with Bear instead of dwelling on the sad ending. I think our kitties go to Heaven or even the Rainbow Bridge and wait for us so I think you'll meet again. You have to take comfort in knowing you provided him with the best life you could and that you were doing all you could to help him. He had to have known he was loved. Candace (take the litter out before replying by e-mail) See my cats: http://photos.yahoo.com/maccandace "One does not meet oneself until one catches the reflection from an eye other than human." (Loren Eisely) |
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"Teddy" wrote in message ... My wonderful black longhaired kitty named Bear died Sun. evening as the vet here and I were rushing him to a larger city to get help with his breathing distress. I was so crazy about him and it hurts so bad. I can't stop crying. I want him back but I know thats not possible. Teddy, Condolences on the loss of your precious kitty. You will always have a place in your heart for him. Hang onto those special memories. It will hurt now, but they will give you comfort later. Be sure to take care of yourself. Annie |
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