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Mary wrote: Phil, this brings up a question I have often wondered about. Most of the time that we have people in here about really bad cat conflicts, it seems to me they are between two males. Are two males of similar ages more likely to have conflicts, assuming they are neutered, than, say, two females or a female or a male? I can't speak to what as typical, but I have found in my own experience that two males have worked well together. And we have had more trouble with dominant females. We have had 3 dominant females over the years. Darcy was the first one and she terrorized Shalon when she arrived as a kitten. She never missed a chance to prove herself top cat. Later, as her health declined, Shalom started attacking her and she became the top cat. Same thing when we added Tov. Shalom attacked Tove and was latter attacked by Tov when she got older. During that whole time, other cats, who were not dominant, were not involved in these issues. My first cat Fiona, lived with all 3 of those females and she was never attacked, nor did she do any attacking. My sister has had two pairs of males. When her first cat died, she brought in an 8 month old male to be buddies with her older male cat. She insisted she din't want a male cat or an orange cat, but she came home with an orange male cat And they were great buddies for years. After the older one died, she searched petfinder for a couple weeks and came up with another male, about a year old. They are doing well together too. In our own home, the only male who was a problem was one that my mom did not neuter right away, and he was also very dominant and jealous of people attention too. He even went after the dogs if my mom was petting them. Currently, we have 3 males. One is Maynard, the almost 19 year old, and he has always been mild. He tells off the dogs if they come too close, and occasionally a cat. But he doesn't fight. If Chase goes after him to play, then Maynard screams and swats back. Chase is very playful and technically he doesn't attack anybody, but he does go after Kira to play. She has a fluffy squirrel tail that never stops moving. But he is much better now with the addition of... Jay Jay - the newest addition. Guestimated at 4 years old. Just neutered 2 weeks before we got him. And the most mild cat you've ever seen. He backs down from Maynard and Kira, stands his ground with Booper (my sister's cat who sometimes passes through and growls at him), and he plays big time with Chase. They are great buddies and play every day. And they are approximately the same age. We don't really know for sure on Jay Jay. He could be younger. |
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