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"CatNipped" wrote No condesending intended, but, ever since 9/11 the 'risk conciousness' in the USA has cranked up several notches about everything! Nope, just doesn't wash. Bandit has been inside only since 1990 - *LONG* before 9/11, *LONG* before we even thought terrorism could touch us here in the US. Matthew also accused me of keeping my cats inside due to my intense "FEAR" as he put it, in caps. It is not fear, it is just good sense. Per the massacre of Sept. 11, 2001 in NYC, I am no more afraid now than I was before. Fear is not really my strong suit. Heavily encouraged by your Government.... And why not? A paranoid population is way easier to controll. It's happened to a smaller degree here in Canada, we passed a security bill too... But it's kind of like a 'Diet Patriot Act'... Still bad for you, but easier to swallow. I think this is a bit far afield of whether or not cats are safe left to roam outside unattended in places where there are cars. But maybe that is just me. |
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"CatNipped" wrote in message ... "Mary" wrote in message ... "CatNipped" wrote in message ... "Mary" wrote in message ... You're going beyond the call of duty here, CN. This is exactly what Steve G. and Alison do--and I never take the time to back up and shove the **** back in their faces, as such blatant sophistry just is not worth it. Just like using tactics that demonize or discredit one's adversary, it's the last refuge of the dim-witted. Well, I'm still fairly new to usenet so I guess I'm expecting logic instead of rhetoric - my bad! Just like I expect people to be fair. But at least you're doing better than I am handling it, as you don't regularly get mad and call them all the assholes that they are. LOL, I'll let you in on a little secret. I'm from New Orleans and was raised by a true Southern Belle. The madder we get, the quieter we get and the more we start using endearments. When I heard my mother whisper, "Darlin' girl, get your sweet self over here and let your momma look at your precious face, angel!", I knew I was in a *world* of sh*t! ; In polite Southern society it would never do to point out someone's bad manners or other faults - it's like you would treat a puppy who runs into a room full of guests, wagging his tail, and then poops on the rug. A Southern lady would not only pretend it hadn't happened, she would make every guest *believe* it never happened! It's usually not necessary to point out when someone is showing their ignorance, most of the time all you have to do is stand back and let them make a fool of *themselves*! But I'm finding out that that's not always the case on usenet. Oh well, as my mother says, it takes all kinds! Hugs, CatNipped LOL! You can tell I was not raised in the south. I love this characterization, great job. Ever think about writing about your southern upbringing? Some of my favorite writers are southern women. Ever |
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"CatNipped" wrote in message ... SNIP Are the happier? I'll repeat what I just wrote in another post... Really? Please ask your cats to write to me and tell me how much happier they are by getting to go outside. Oh, they can't write? Then please ask them to call and tell me how much happier they are by getting to go outside. What's that? They can't speak either? Then please, pray tell, how do you know that they are happier than if they were to stay inside? How have they told you that they understand, have weighed, and accept the risks of going outside. By their behavior??? Look up anthropomorphism. You can not possibly know what goes on inside your cats' minds, you can only project onto them what you think you would prefer. I can give just as valid an argument by saying my cats are *MUCH* happier by staying inside. How can either of us prove that. I *CAN* prove, however, that my cats are *SAFER* inside. -- I know what anthropomorphism is. & it's just as valid to turn that back on you, my dear. As much as we have domesicated cats, deep in their limbic brains they are still meat eating predators.... So, does it make them happier to play with stuffed toys on a carpet or do what several thousand years of instinct are pushing them to do... go outside & hunt? As they can't write or talk, we may never know... But I can tell you how fascinated & happy Chablis SEEMS to me when she's brought home a kill & so far she's been eating them... Following her genetic programming, I'd call that as close to happy as we can define. You are right, CN, your cats are safer than mine. I once read a very funny book entitled '**** YES' by Dr. Wing Foo Fing (penname for Tom Robbins). It compared safety & sanity in one chapter... It suggested that the two are mutually exclusive. You can be safe OR you can be sane & accept that life will kick the living sh&@ out of you at every oppurtunity.... Hmmmm.... SNIP You and others here claim that these abcesses and other illnesses and injuries are easily treated, but each time a cat has to fight off disease or infection they're not only diminishing their overall health they are taking time off their lifespan, and, getting back to the "happier" theme, how happy can an injured or ill cat be really? Id argue that one, I've studied herbal medecine 92 years under a master herbalist) & spent 2 years on Ski Patrol, doing emergency trauma stuff. Reasearch points to a need to expose humans to various pathogens to stimulate immune response. Doctors are finding too many children with weak immune systems, because kids don't get 'old fashioned dirty' any more. Chabils has some immune issues, her first abcess occured way before I started letting her outside, no Idea what she cut herself on, probably the edge of a peice of furniture or something...? Anyway, she's now on Astragulus to boost her immune efficiency. How can your cat rejoice in feeling healthy if it never knows what feeling lousy is all about? Once I teach Chablis how to type, I'll have her contact you & you can compare notes. Luv ya back! Right Back at you CN. Hugs, CatNipped -- Mathew Butler to 2 kittens: Chablis & Muscat En Vino Veritas |
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"ceb" wrote in message ... "CatNipped" wrote in : Really? Please ask your cat to write to me and tell me how much happier she is by getting to go outside. Oh, she can't write? Then please ask her to call and tell me how much happier she is by getting to go outside. What's that? She can't speak either? Then please, pray tell, how do you know that she is happier than if she were to stay inside? How has she told you that she understands, has weighed, and accepts the risks of going outside. Well, she sits by the door and cries to be let out. On nice days she cries extra. She flies out the door when I open it for her. She stays out for a while sometimes and is clearly enjoying herself. My fat cat cries for food, and if I give it to her she eats it. I am not stupid enough to mistake that for meaning that the food is good for her just because she wants it. She cries for it ALL the TIME. |
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"ceb" wrote in message ... "CatNipped" wrote in : I find it hard to sympathize with people who have been warned, repeatedly, that allowing cats to go outside is hazardous and do *NOT* listen to those warnings, in fact give specious arguments why those warnings should be ignored, and *THEN* come back and cry about how they lost their cat (usually giving the rest of us gratuitous and graphic descriptions of how mangled the cat was when it was found). I would sympathize with the *CAT* who had to suffer and die because her person was too irresponsible and thick-headed, or just plain too lazy, to go to the effort of providing a safe rewarding environment for their cat. What is up with the ad hominem attacks on this group??? We disagree. That doesn't make me irresponsible, thick-headed, or lazy. -- It does when your stance endangers cats for your own convenience. |
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"Mathew Kagis" wrote in message news:JiB4e.3097$jR3.397@edtnps84... "CatNipped" wrote in message ... SNIP Are the happier? I'll repeat what I just wrote in another post... Really? Please ask your cats to write to me and tell me how much happier they are by getting to go outside. Oh, they can't write? Then please ask them to call and tell me how much happier they are by getting to go outside. What's that? They can't speak either? Then please, pray tell, how do you know that they are happier than if they were to stay inside? How have they told you that they understand, have weighed, and accept the risks of going outside. By their behavior??? Look up anthropomorphism. You can not possibly know what goes on inside your cats' minds, you can only project onto them what you think you would prefer. I can give just as valid an argument by saying my cats are *MUCH* happier by staying inside. How can either of us prove that. I *CAN* prove, however, that my cats are *SAFER* inside. -- I know what anthropomorphism is. & it's just as valid to turn that back on you, my dear. As much as we have domesicated cats, deep in their limbic brains they are still meat eating predators.... So, does it make them happier to play with stuffed toys on a carpet or do what several thousand years of instinct are pushing them to do... go outside & hunt? As they can't write or talk, we may never know... But I can tell you how fascinated & happy Chablis SEEMS to me when she's brought home a kill & so far she's been eating them... Following her genetic programming, I'd call that as close to happy as we can define. You are right, CN, your cats are safer than mine. I once read a very funny book entitled '**** YES' by Dr. Wing Foo Fing (penname for Tom Robbins). It compared safety & sanity in one chapter... It suggested that the two are mutually exclusive. You can be safe OR you can be sane & accept that life will kick the living sh&@ out of you at every oppurtunity.... Hmmmm.... He was not talking about cats, dumbass. He was talking about humans. |
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"CatNipped" wrote in
: how wracked with guilt I would be if it were something I could have prevented from happening just be taking the extra time and effort to keep them inside. How does it take extra time and effort to keep them inside? I found that having an inside-only cat was much easier than letting the cat out, opening and closing doors, keeping an eye on things, etc etc. Not that either scenario is terribly hard. I just fail to see how letting the cat out sometimes means that I'm expending less time and effort with respect to my cat. -- Catherine & Rosalie the calico |
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"ceb" wrote in message
... "CatNipped" wrote in : Really? Please ask your cat to write to me and tell me how much happier she is by getting to go outside. Oh, she can't write? Then please ask her to call and tell me how much happier she is by getting to go outside. What's that? She can't speak either? Then please, pray tell, how do you know that she is happier than if she were to stay inside? How has she told you that she understands, has weighed, and accepts the risks of going outside. Well, she sits by the door and cries to be let out. On nice days she cries extra. She flies out the door when I open it for her. She stays out for a while sometimes and is clearly enjoying herself. Gee, when my kids were toddlers they cried for candy and didn't want to eat their vegetables. Eating candy, they clearly enjoyed themselves. Silly me worrying about their nutrition and their health when I should have been giving them what they cried for so they could be happy. When they were youngsters they cried that they didn't want to go to school. They clearly enjoyed staying home and playing instead. How cruel of me to *force* them to go, I made them terribly unhappy by doing so. When they were teenagers they whined and complained about not being able to stay out late or smoke or drink or do drugs - that's what they *wanted* to do, that's what would have made them *happy*!! It's such a shame that they turned out to be such happy, healthy (never been sick a day in their lives, never had a cavity), productive adults with happy families and good careers. I just didn't have anybody to tell me how wrong I was to make them so unhappy! Now, I wouldn't let her do whatever she wants just because she cries. After Madeline's surgery, she cried at the door A LOT and I didn't let her out because she was still recovering. Rosalie lived the first 3 years of her life outside. As I have said before, I have known cats who, as a result of living outside, never want to go outside again. I thought Rosalie might be one of them, but I was wrong. I would have preferred for my own sake that she be indoor only, but since she likes going out and is pretty cautious, I do let her sometimes. Nickleby was indoor-only and was a very happy cat. Even after we got Madeline, and she started going outside, Nickleby went out very rarely, and then usually only if I went out with him. He wanted to be with me. That's just the way he was. I wouldn't force a cat outside who didn't want to go, and I wouldn't keep a cat inside all the time who wanted to go out, given a reasonably safe environment. I am not saying anything about the decisions you make for your cats. I don't really see this as a moral issue about which there is a right and a wrong. All along I have just been trying to explain that it is possible to *adore* one's cats and make a different decision about the whole indoor/outdoor question. You seem to disagree. Yes I disagree, simply because I would never knowingly put someone I love in harm's way. when you love someone you do what's *best* for them, not simply what makes them happy. I wouldn't let my toddlers *or* my cats play in traffic! CatNipped -- Catherine & Rosalie the calico |
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oops...that's 2 years under a master herbalist... diddn't hit the shift key
the 9 should be a (. -- Mathew Butler to 2 kittens: Chablis & Muscat En Vino Veritas "Mathew Kagis" wrote in message news:JiB4e.3097$jR3.397@edtnps84... "CatNipped" wrote in message ... SNIP Are the happier? I'll repeat what I just wrote in another post... Really? Please ask your cats to write to me and tell me how much happier they are by getting to go outside. Oh, they can't write? Then please ask them to call and tell me how much happier they are by getting to go outside. What's that? They can't speak either? Then please, pray tell, how do you know that they are happier than if they were to stay inside? How have they told you that they understand, have weighed, and accept the risks of going outside. By their behavior??? Look up anthropomorphism. You can not possibly know what goes on inside your cats' minds, you can only project onto them what you think you would prefer. I can give just as valid an argument by saying my cats are *MUCH* happier by staying inside. How can either of us prove that. I *CAN* prove, however, that my cats are *SAFER* inside. -- I know what anthropomorphism is. & it's just as valid to turn that back on you, my dear. As much as we have domesicated cats, deep in their limbic brains they are still meat eating predators.... So, does it make them happier to play with stuffed toys on a carpet or do what several thousand years of instinct are pushing them to do... go outside & hunt? As they can't write or talk, we may never know... But I can tell you how fascinated & happy Chablis SEEMS to me when she's brought home a kill & so far she's been eating them... Following her genetic programming, I'd call that as close to happy as we can define. You are right, CN, your cats are safer than mine. I once read a very funny book entitled '**** YES' by Dr. Wing Foo Fing (penname for Tom Robbins). It compared safety & sanity in one chapter... It suggested that the two are mutually exclusive. You can be safe OR you can be sane & accept that life will kick the living sh&@ out of you at every oppurtunity.... Hmmmm.... SNIP You and others here claim that these abcesses and other illnesses and injuries are easily treated, but each time a cat has to fight off disease or infection they're not only diminishing their overall health they are taking time off their lifespan, and, getting back to the "happier" theme, how happy can an injured or ill cat be really? Id argue that one, I've studied herbal medecine 92 years under a master herbalist) & spent 2 years on Ski Patrol, doing emergency trauma stuff. Reasearch points to a need to expose humans to various pathogens to stimulate immune response. Doctors are finding too many children with weak immune systems, because kids don't get 'old fashioned dirty' any more. Chabils has some immune issues, her first abcess occured way before I started letting her outside, no Idea what she cut herself on, probably the edge of a peice of furniture or something...? Anyway, she's now on Astragulus to boost her immune efficiency. How can your cat rejoice in feeling healthy if it never knows what feeling lousy is all about? Once I teach Chablis how to type, I'll have her contact you & you can compare notes. Luv ya back! Right Back at you CN. Hugs, CatNipped -- Mathew Butler to 2 kittens: Chablis & Muscat En Vino Veritas |
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