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an odd question but...
I hope you washed your hands good, Lee
Granby wrote in message ... I had a friend, years ago, who was saying she was about to be homeless. Two weeks after she told me that, I went to visit her. We talked and she asked me what I would do in her situation. We did an inventory that went something like this. A stereo system that would make any geek on that sort of thing envious. Furniture that was probably worth a few hundred bucks. A small apartment size piano. Five diamond rings and other jewelry. So on and so on........ She said,"If I sell all this and things get better then I will have nothing. I told her she would have her cat and dog. To her the idea of not having a cell phone, land line, cable and net service was our of the question. I finally shook her hand, wished her luck and never bothered her again. She got rid of the animals, to cut expenses, That was about all she did except get a new boyfriend with money. "Stormmee" wrote in message ... well I have been sort of obsessing on this because like Jo I think once you accept a being into your family then they are family and must be cared for...so if you are homeless then for me at least I would keep them with me as long as I could, Lee, ... must admit it would probably be one duffel for me and DH to share and one for the masters, kilikini wrote in message ... Oh my gosh, I actually had a visual on that! ROFL. kili Stormmee wrote: if you could get two of those rolling boards that you work under cars on, tie them together and then attach the kennels and a handle you can pull them behind you if need be, a duffle bag on top for your things, perhaps two could take you quite a ways, Lee kilikini wrote in message ... Stormmee wrote: I know we have discussed in the past what happens to your cats and other animals if you go to the bridge, but how about this one... what happens if you are to soon be homeless, especially for lack of funds to maintain your current living accommodations? other questions that occurred to me on this topic. What would you sell to keep the house/apartment? what would you move to to keep them? would you be homeless with them? Lee I've been homeless with a d*g before, so I'm sure I'd do the same with my cats. It can be done. I currently don't have a car, don't have anything to sell, I have no bank account or credit cards, but I have two large kennels that would help "house" my critters in such an emergency. I got them at a yard sale for about $5 each and I think a d*g of 150 pounds would fit in both of them, so 3 cats, separated, would be fine with litter in a cake pan. You can get creative when you have to. :~) kili |
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an odd question but...
mlbriggs kirjoitti:
I am trying to remember the words to an old song. Does anyone remember "Accentuate the positive .........??the negative.....don't mess with Mr. Inbetween"? MLB Here you go: http://www.lyricsdepot.com/Johnny-me...-positive.html -- Christine in Laitila, Finland christal63 (at) gmail (dot) com |
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an odd question but...
On Wed, 13 Feb 2008 06:05:02 +0200, Christine K. wrote:
mlbriggs kirjoitti: I am trying to remember the words to an old song. Does anyone remember "Accentuate the positive .........??the negative.....don't mess with Mr. Inbetween"? MLB Here you go: http://www.lyricsdepot.com/Johnny-me...-positive.html Thank you so much. Good idea, don't you agree? MLB |
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an odd question but...
mlbriggs wrote: I am trying to remember the words to an old song. Does anyone remember "Accentuate the positive, ELIMINATE the negative, LATCH ONTO THE AFFIRMATIVE, AND don't mess with Mr. Inbetween"? |
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an odd question but...
On Tue, 12 Feb 2008 12:48:46 -0600, "Stormmee"
wrote: well I have been sort of obsessing on this because like Jo I think once you accept a being into your family then they are family and must be cared for...so if you are homeless then for me at least I would keep them with me as long as I could, Lee, ... must admit it would probably be one duffel for me and DH to share and one for the masters, To me, our cats are our responsibility... it's our job to keep them happy, housed, healthy and fed in the style to which they were quite happy to become accustomed (ie. spoilt rotten!). If for some reason we coudln't give them a safe and secure home any more, I'd have to rehome them for their sakes, because their health and happiness matters more to me than my own. They're not street-smart and I'd hate to think of what might happen to them if they had to live rough... (if we had a van or a caravan or a trailer it would be different - a home doesn't have to be conventional, it just has to have four walls and a roof and doors that close properly... cats don't need a lot of space to be happy.) I saw a car parked in a carpark a few months ago which was packed to the gunwhales with stuff... and two dogs on the front seat and a ginger cat in a carrier in the back, all apparantly quite at home and relaxed. The owner was obviously either in the process of moving house, or living in the car (and I suspect the latter.) I don't know how you'd manage it with three animals - it doesn't seem very fair to them to me - but the dogs didn't seem to mind... |
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an odd question but...
I think the van/camper is the key to me, since we have a van it never
occurred to me that we wouldn't have it, being totally without transportation or shelter for them might cause me to reconsider, Lee Karen AKA Kajikit wrote in message ... On Tue, 12 Feb 2008 12:48:46 -0600, "Stormmee" wrote: well I have been sort of obsessing on this because like Jo I think once you accept a being into your family then they are family and must be cared for...so if you are homeless then for me at least I would keep them with me as long as I could, Lee, ... must admit it would probably be one duffel for me and DH to share and one for the masters, To me, our cats are our responsibility... it's our job to keep them happy, housed, healthy and fed in the style to which they were quite happy to become accustomed (ie. spoilt rotten!). If for some reason we coudln't give them a safe and secure home any more, I'd have to rehome them for their sakes, because their health and happiness matters more to me than my own. They're not street-smart and I'd hate to think of what might happen to them if they had to live rough... (if we had a van or a caravan or a trailer it would be different - a home doesn't have to be conventional, it just has to have four walls and a roof and doors that close properly... cats don't need a lot of space to be happy.) I saw a car parked in a carpark a few months ago which was packed to the gunwhales with stuff... and two dogs on the front seat and a ginger cat in a carrier in the back, all apparantly quite at home and relaxed. The owner was obviously either in the process of moving house, or living in the car (and I suspect the latter.) I don't know how you'd manage it with three animals - it doesn't seem very fair to them to me - but the dogs didn't seem to mind... |
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an odd question but...
At one point in my life, about 10 years ago, I was homeless for about a
year. No address, people taking me in, running from a psychotic former roommate and dealing with being newly diagnosed bipolar and unable to work. For about 6 weeks, I was unable to keep Tony, I was able to board him for a couple of weeks until I found a friend who wanted him - she loved him to death as a kitten and would do anything to get her hands on him. She was perfect. And when I found a someone would give me long-term housing with them, they let me bring along Tony. My friend was glad to give him up by that time because he was driving her nuts! Bridget Stormmee wrote: I know we have discussed in the past what happens to your cats and other animals if you go to the bridge, but how about this one... what happens if you are to soon be homeless, especially for lack of funds to maintain your current living accommodations? other questions that occurred to me on this topic. What would you sell to keep the house/apartment? what would you move to to keep them? would you be homeless with them? Lee |
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an odd question but...
I currently live with my parents, and will be doing so until I've saved
enough money for my own apartment -- and don't let anyone tell you that southeastern Florida is affordable (it isn't). My parents have told my sister, who's planning to move back to the Midwest with her boyfriend, and me the same thing: If you ever fall on hard times, we'll always have room to take you back. When I move out, I do plan to take Lilith with me but only to a place that allows small pets and doesn't have too much of a "pet fee." Also, the prospective leasing agent must allow cats with their claws intact, because I absolutely WILL NOT declaw Lilith. Uh, did I go off topic again? Debby I know we have discussed in the past what happens to your cats and other animals if you go to the bridge, but how about this one... what happens if you are to soon be homeless, especially for lack of funds to maintain your current living accommodations? other questions that occurred to me on this topic. What would you sell to keep the house/apartment? what would you move to to keep them? would you be homeless with them? Lee |
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an odd question but...
its good that you have a fall back position, as I think most of us do, and
if it were really bad I could foster my cats with my parents, as long as my sister fed them and they stayed in the basement, My dad is ER room allergic... I just started thinking about this as a bit of obsessing, Lee, who wouldn't declaw either, not for somewhere to sleep ChildFree23 wrote in message ... I currently live with my parents, and will be doing so until I've saved enough money for my own apartment -- and don't let anyone tell you that southeastern Florida is affordable (it isn't). My parents have told my sister, who's planning to move back to the Midwest with her boyfriend, and me the same thing: If you ever fall on hard times, we'll always have room to take you back. When I move out, I do plan to take Lilith with me but only to a place that allows small pets and doesn't have too much of a "pet fee." Also, the prospective leasing agent must allow cats with their claws intact, because I absolutely WILL NOT declaw Lilith. Uh, did I go off topic again? Debby I know we have discussed in the past what happens to your cats and other animals if you go to the bridge, but how about this one... what happens if you are to soon be homeless, especially for lack of funds to maintain your current living accommodations? other questions that occurred to me on this topic. What would you sell to keep the house/apartment? what would you move to to keep them? would you be homeless with them? Lee |
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