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Al died today
Thank you all so much for your kind words. It helps a lot!
Buddy asked about Al's lung cancer. It actually was lung cancer as opposed to feline leukemia. Apparently it's not too common for animals to get lung cancer. That said, I chatted online with someone last night whose dog recently died of the same thing. Your guess is as good as mine as to how Al developed lung cancer. He did have asthma, but I doubt the two illnesses were related. Maybe I have a a lot of radon in my apartment. I just don't know. When I returned home from a business trip last June, I noticed Al was limping slightly. I attributed it to arthritis and gave it a few weeks to see if it would clear up. It didn't. The limp got worse. So I took Al to the vet for x-rays of his front legs. Nothing noticeable there, but the x-rays caught part of Al's lungs. And the radiologist was convinced he saw a tumor. A full chest x-ray confirmed the diagnosis of lung cancer. My vet told me that with lung cancer it is not uncommon for it to spread to the limbs, thereby presenting itself as lameness. I allowed the vet to perform a necropsy on Al. Tissue samples were taken. They will be sent to a research lab where work is being done on improved treatments and medicines for animals. That thought gives me some comfort. And the vet called with the post-mortem results. The cancer had spread a lot. Among other things, there was a mass in Al's right front leg, and that explains his limp. It definitely was time for me to let Al go. I have no regrets about my decision to put Al down. It just hurts a lot not having him with me at home. I keep expect him to come into my bedroom and awaken me at some odd hour, like now. Al used to play fetch when he was in his prime. As a graduate student in Ohio, I lived in a townhouse. Al and I use to play a game where I would throw a ball up the stairs and Al would fly up the stairs after the ball. He would bring it in his mouth back to the top of the stairs, drop the ball, and kick it down to me. I then threw the ball up over his head, and we kept on like that for a while. Other times, Al would leave dead mice on the stairs. I always praised him by saying "GOOD BOY!" Al was a very good hunter. Fortunately, however, there weren't many mice. After a little time has passed and I am ready, I will definitely get another cat. Maybe two. And I will get adult cats from a shelter. They seem to be the ones most in need. Al was 1-2 yo when I got him from an Ohio shelter in 1992. But whatever cat(s) I do eventually get, it (they) won't be orange tabby(s). Al broke that mold. Goodbye little guy. I will always love and remember you. Rich |
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mdsu wrote: Al, my orange tabby (4 white paws and chest), who I adopted from an Ohio shelter 14 years ago on August 17, died today. He had lung cancer. I held him as the vet euthanized him. It was peaceful and quick. The vet left me alone with Al for a few minutes afterwards and I cried like a baby. I miss him so much! He was the most gentle little guy I have ever known. The vet's husband, who was Al's first vet, called to tell me how sorry he was. He said that to this day he always thinks of Al whenever he sees an orange cat. This day is especially tough as I live alone (divorced). Putting Al down was harder than my divorce because unlike my ex-wife, I never stopped loving Al. At least Al's suffering is over. Sadly, Rich I am so sorry for your loss. We lost our beloved, Tribbles" to lung cancer six years ago. We would give anything to have her back. I know you will never stop loving him. |
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mdsu wrote: After a little time has passed and I am ready, I will definitely get another cat. Maybe two. And I will get adult cats from a shelter. They seem to be the ones most in need. Al was 1-2 yo when I got him from an Ohio shelter in 1992. But whatever cat(s) I do eventually get, it (they) won't be orange tabby(s). Al broke that mold. Goodbye little guy. I will always love and remember you. Rich Awww, Rich - your post brought tears to my eyes. My advice is "Never say never". I never thought I'd get anothert black cat after my beloved Pookey died , but when I found a little black rascal poking his paws out from the bars of the cage at the HS, looking so pitiful and needing me so badly, I caved. That's my beloved Peewee who has done the memory of Pookey proud. -L. |
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Sorry, Rich. Al was lucky to have you. Our cats have much shorter life
spans than we do so that we can care for them their whole lives. But it sure leaves us very sad sometimes. -- Barb Of course I don't look busy, I did it right the first time. |
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mdsu wrote: Al, my orange tabby (4 white paws and chest), who I adopted from an Ohio shelter 14 years ago on August 17, died today. He had lung cancer. I held him as the vet euthanized him. It was peaceful and quick. The vet left me alone with Al for a few minutes afterwards and I cried like a baby. I miss him so much! He was the most gentle little guy I have ever known. The vet's husband, who was Al's first vet, called to tell me how sorry he was. He said that to this day he always thinks of Al whenever he sees an orange cat. Yes, Rick.... I know just how you feel. We've been taking care of the neighborhood stray here for going on 11 years. She was a funny cute little girl-kitty I named Marilyn (because she looked so ****ing ditzy... just like Marilyn Monroe in the face). She was so gentle and feminine. I fed her by nite and the wife did by day. I would often stand guard out on the porch while she ate so the other neighborhood strays would stay away, and she would always look to me as she was eating... making sure I was still there, so she could nourish herself without fear of having to flee. She would meet me at the door of my car every nite when I arrived home, crying and eager to have her dinner. She never really belonged to us, though. We kept her up to date on her shots and so-forth, mainly because we knew nobody else would. Tried in vain to bring her inside once, but she was a free spirit and didn't like it. Well, she went missing for a few days last month. She'd done this before so I wasn't that concerned, but the wife said she thought this might be the end. She was right. While heading out to go to work, I discovered her lifeless little corpse under my car. She had returned to the one place where she felt most secure... near the driver's door of my vehicle. Very flattering, actually. This day is especially tough as I live alone (divorced). Putting Al down was harder than my divorce because unlike my ex-wife, I never stopped loving Al. Do you think you ever loved her to begin with...? At least Al's suffering is over. Sadly, Rich That's one way to look at it. In fact, that's the only way to look at something as profound as death. IBen |
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IBen Getiner wrote: I would often stand guard out on the porch while she ate so the other neighborhood strays would stay away Tell the neighbors in your trailer park to spay their catz... -- ---------- Mr. J Yöung |
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Judith Latham wrote:
In article , mdsu wrote: Thank you all so much for your kind words. It helps a lot! Buddy asked about Al's lung cancer. It actually was lung cancer as opposed to feline leukemia. Apparently it's not too common for animals to get lung cancer. That said, I chatted online with someone last night whose dog recently died of the same thing. Your guess is as good as mine as to how Al developed lung cancer. He did have asthma, but I doubt the two illnesses were related. Maybe I have a a lot of radon in my apartment. I just don't know. Snipped.... After a little time has passed and I am ready, I will definitely get another cat. Maybe two. And I will get adult cats from a shelter. They seem to be the ones most in need. Al was 1-2 yo when I got him from an Ohio shelter in 1992. But whatever cat(s) I do eventually get, it (they) won't be orange tabby(s). Al broke that mold. Goodbye little guy. I will always love and remember you. Rich I usually just lurk on this newsgroup so you won't know of me but your post touched me to reply. I know exactly how you feel. It hurts so much even though you did the right thing. I lost my cat Sophie 15 months ago and she too was very, very gentle. She used to sleep beside my pillow and I still leave that space. It has taken me until now to even think of getting another puss but like you I will only get a rescue cat. (Don't tell anyone but I sleep with her photo under my pillow) I won't tell. :-) I wish I could help your hurt but your happy memories of Al will eventually help. I can't send you purrs but I send my deepest good wishes and thoughts. Judith Thank you very much for your very nice note. I do have a lot of nice memories and a lot of great pictures of Al. And today I received a letter from the director of the hospital where Al received his care. They will donate $219 to an organization that assists people of limited means with their veterinary bills. And Al's current and former vets (wife and husband) sent me a condolence card. I've gotten a lot of support, here and elsewhere. It helps a lot. Rich |
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Judith Latham wrote:
In article yOadnZgtK8swYm7ZnZ2dnUVZ_tidnZ2d, mdsu mdsu wrote: Thank you all so much for your kind words. It helps a lot! Buddy asked about Al's lung cancer. It actually was lung cancer as opposed to feline leukemia. Apparently it's not too common for animals to get lung cancer. That said, I chatted online with someone last night whose dog recently died of the same thing. Your guess is as good as mine as to how Al developed lung cancer. He did have asthma, but I doubt the two illnesses were related. Maybe I have a a lot of radon in my apartment. I just don't know. Snipped.... After a little time has passed and I am ready, I will definitely get another cat. Maybe two. And I will get adult cats from a shelter. They seem to be the ones most in need. Al was 1-2 yo when I got him from an Ohio shelter in 1992. But whatever cat(s) I do eventually get, it (they) won't be orange tabby(s). Al broke that mold. Goodbye little guy. I will always love and remember you. Rich I usually just lurk on this newsgroup so you won't know of me but your post touched me to reply. I know exactly how you feel. It hurts so much even though you did the right thing. I lost my cat Sophie 15 months ago and she too was very, very gentle. She used to sleep beside my pillow and I still leave that space. It has taken me until now to even think of getting another puss but like you I will only get a rescue cat. (Don't tell anyone but I sleep with her photo under my pillow) I won't tell. :-) I wish I could help your hurt but your happy memories of Al will eventually help. I can't send you purrs but I send my deepest good wishes and thoughts. Judith Thank you very much for your very nice note. I do have a lot of nice memories and a lot of great pictures of Al. And today I received a letter from the director of the hospital where Al received his care. They will donate $219 to an organization that assists people of limited means with their veterinary bills. And Al's current and former vets (wife and husband) sent me a condolence card. I've gotten a lot of support, here and elsewhere. It helps a lot. Rich Sent via http://Pets-99.com , http://AnimalForum.ws & http://AnimalBlog.org |
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Judith Latham wrote:
In article yOadnZgtK8swYm7ZnZ2dnUVZ_tidnZ2d, mdsu mdsu wrote: Thank you all so much for your kind words. It helps a lot! Buddy asked about Al's lung cancer. It actually was lung cancer as opposed to feline leukemia. Apparently it's not too common for animals to get lung cancer. That said, I chatted online with someone last night whose dog recently died of the same thing. Your guess is as good as mine as to how Al developed lung cancer. He did have asthma, but I doubt the two illnesses were related. Maybe I have a a lot of radon in my apartment. I just don't know. Snipped.... After a little time has passed and I am ready, I will definitely get another cat. Maybe two. And I will get adult cats from a shelter. They seem to be the ones most in need. Al was 1-2 yo when I got him from an Ohio shelter in 1992. But whatever cat(s) I do eventually get, it (they) won't be orange tabby(s). Al broke that mold. Goodbye little guy. I will always love and remember you. Rich I usually just lurk on this newsgroup so you won't know of me but your post touched me to reply. I know exactly how you feel. It hurts so much even though you did the right thing. I lost my cat Sophie 15 months ago and she too was very, very gentle. She used to sleep beside my pillow and I still leave that space. It has taken me until now to even think of getting another puss but like you I will only get a rescue cat. (Don't tell anyone but I sleep with her photo under my pillow) I won't tell. :-) I wish I could help your hurt but your happy memories of Al will eventually help. I can't send you purrs but I send my deepest good wishes and thoughts. Judith Thank you very much for your very nice note. I do have a lot of nice memories and a lot of great pictures of Al. And today I received a letter from the director of the hospital where Al received his care. They will donate $219 to an organization that assists people of limited means with their veterinary bills. And Al's current and former vets (wife and husband) sent me a condolence card. I've gotten a lot of support, here and elsewhere. It helps a lot. Rich Sent via http://Pets-99.com , http://AnimalForum.ws & http://AnimalBlog.org |
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