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HELP ... my cat is a crybabay
My cat cries constantly, from the moment I come home until I go to
bed. He also digs his nails into my pants and scratches, or starts attacking my furniture or the corners of the carpet. I used to give him food, thinking he was hungry, but he never ate it. Instead, it seems he just wants me to sit on the floor so he can cuddle up on my lap. I don't especially mind that, but sometimes I just want to be left alone. How do I change this behavior? He is driving me nuts. Dom |
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HELP ... my cat is a crybabay
sounds to me like he's lonely. Have you thought about getting him a
companion cat. Celeste "Dom" wrote in message ... My cat cries constantly, from the moment I come home until I go to bed. He also digs his nails into my pants and scratches, or starts attacking my furniture or the corners of the carpet. I used to give him food, thinking he was hungry, but he never ate it. Instead, it seems he just wants me to sit on the floor so he can cuddle up on my lap. I don't especially mind that, but sometimes I just want to be left alone. How do I change this behavior? He is driving me nuts. Dom |
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HELP ... my cat is a crybabay
I got him to be a companion for my first cat!! He drives that cat
nuts too!!!!!! Dom On Feb 17, 5:25*pm, "Spot" wrote: sounds to me like he's lonely. *Have you thought about getting him a companion cat. Celeste "Dom" wrote in message ... My cat cries constantly, from the moment I come home until I go to bed. *He also digs his nails into my pants and scratches, or starts attacking my furniture or the corners of the carpet. *I used to give him food, thinking he was hungry, but he never ate it. *Instead, it seems he just wants me to sit on the floor so he can cuddle up on my lap. *I don't especially mind that, but sometimes I just want to be left alone. How do I change this behavior? *He is driving me nuts. Dom- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - |
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HELP ... my cat is a crybabay
On Sun, 17 Feb 2008 14:32:58 -0800 (PST), Dom
wrote: My cat cries constantly, from the moment I come home until I go to bed. *He also digs his nails into my pants and scratches, or starts attacking my furniture or the corners of the carpet. *I used to give him food, thinking he was hungry, but he never ate it. *Instead, it seems he just wants me to sit on the floor so he can cuddle up on my lap. *I don't especially mind that, but sometimes I just want to be left alone. How do I change this behavior? *He is driving me nuts. Dom- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - On Feb 17, 5:25*pm, "Spot" wrote: sounds to me like he's lonely. *Have you thought about getting him a companion cat. Celeste top posting fixed "Dom" wrote in message ... I got him to be a companion for my first cat!! He drives that cat nuts too!!!!!! Dom ROFL! This made me think of the old "The Cat Came Back" song/cartoon video. If you've never seen it, you *have* to watch it!: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WNyqXsv4Ueo --- Zob |
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HELP ... my cat is a crybabay
On Feb 17, 5:32*pm, Dom wrote:
I got him to be a companion for my first cat!! *He drives that cat nuts too!!!!!! Dom On Feb 17, 5:25*pm, "Spot" wrote: sounds to me like he's lonely. *Have you thought about getting him a companion cat. Celeste "Dom" wrote in message ... My cat cries constantly, from the moment I come home until I go to bed. *He also digs his nails into my pants and scratches, or starts attacking my furniture or the corners of the carpet. *I used to give him food, thinking he was hungry, but he never ate it. *Instead, it seems he just wants me to sit on the floor so he can cuddle up on my lap. *I don't especially mind that, but sometimes I just want to be left alone. How do I change this behavior? *He is driving me nuts. Dom- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - Maybe you can have him volunteer at old folks' homes where people would love to cuddle up with a lap cat. |
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HELP ... my cat is a crybabay
On Feb 17, 3:37*pm, Dom wrote:
My cat cries constantly, from the moment I come home until I go to bed. *He also digs his nails into my pants and scratches, or starts attacking my furniture or the corners of the carpet. *I used to give him food, thinking he was hungry, but he never ate it. *Instead, it seems he just wants me to sit on the floor so he can cuddle up on my lap. *I don't especially mind that, but sometimes I just want to be left alone. How do I change this behavior? *He is driving me nuts. Dom How often do you play with him? He may need more mental stimulation. Play with him several times per day using an interactive toy like the Cat Dancer. Rotate his toys so there's always something "new" to play with. Do you have a tall cat tree for him to climb? How about a box to play in? I don't know your living situation, but is it possible to have a friend or pet sitter come during the day to play with him? It might cut down on his anxiety. Rene |
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HELP ... my cat is a crybabay
Dom wrote:
I got him to be a companion for my first cat!! He drives that cat nuts too!!!!!! Looking for a companion to my paranoid feral female, I took in a large male stray. He was amazingly calm and tame towards me, but he began to whine frequently. That was especially distressing while I used the computer. Then I took in another stray male, very playful. So the big guy attacked the playful one. That helped solve the problem, I got rid of the big guy. That ended up proving to be a great choice. If you take a cat off of the street or maybe from a shelter (and do not have it declawed), you can throw it back and try another. My current stray male proves the best things in life are free. I agree with the anxiety and need for attention comments, but sometimes the need for attention is abnormal and there are limits in real life (as opposed to a "my compassion has no bounds" fantasy on the Internet). Would be fun to take care of all the needful animals in the world, but oh well. |
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HELP ... my cat is a crybabay
On Sun, 17 Feb 2008 13:37:40 -0800, Dom wrote:
My cat cries constantly, from the moment I come home until I go to bed. He also digs his nails into my pants and scratches, or starts attacking my furniture or the corners of the carpet. I used to give him food, thinking he was hungry, but he never ate it. Instead, it seems he just wants me to sit on the floor so he can cuddle up on my lap. I don't especially mind that, but sometimes I just want to be left alone. How do I change this behavior? He is driving me nuts. Dom Is he a Siamese? If so, they are usually very talkative. It is their nature. MLB |
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