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A Candle for RPCA
I do hope I am not overstepping my boundries, but I just put up a candle for
us, RPCA because SO many folks here are going thru so many losses and troubles that I felt. compelled dto do it. It is done with much love and kindness. Love Kyla http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...?l=eng&gi=RPCA |
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A Candle for RPCA
"Kyla =^..^=" wrote in message
... I do hope I am not overstepping my boundries, but I just put up a candle for us, RPCA because SO many folks here are going thru so many losses and troubles that I felt. compelled dto do it. It is done with much love and kindness. Love Kyla http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...?l=eng&gi=RPCA Sorry, but I really wish you hadn't done that, Kyla. RPCA is not dead and I thought that was in very bad taste. CatNipped |
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A Candle for RPCA
"Kyla =^..^=" I do hope I am not overstepping my boundries, but I just put up a candle for us, RPCA because SO many folks here are going thru so many losses and troubles that I felt. compelled dto do it. It is done with much love and kindness. Love Kyla http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...?l=eng&gi=RPCA I just looked to see if anyone had lit one besides me, and someone from Texas did, with no words.... thank you so much....it means a lot to me. Kyla |
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"CatNipped" wrote in message ... "Kyla =^..^=" wrote in message ... I do hope I am not overstepping my boundries, but I just put up a candle for us, RPCA because SO many folks here are going thru so many losses and troubles that I felt. compelled dto do it. It is done with much love and kindness. Love Kyla http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...?l=eng&gi=RPCA Sorry, but I really wish you hadn't done that, Kyla. RPCA is not dead and I thought that was in very bad taste. CatNipped Lighting a candle to express sorrow for people's losses is not in bad taste; it was meant well and maybe helped someone feel better. Christine |
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A Candle for RPCA
"Christine Burel" wrote in message ... "CatNipped" wrote in message ... "Kyla =^..^=" wrote in message ... I do hope I am not overstepping my boundries, but I just put up a candle for us, RPCA because SO many folks here are going thru so many losses and troubles that I felt. compelled dto do it. It is done with much love and kindness. Love Kyla http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...?l=eng&gi=RPCA Sorry, but I really wish you hadn't done that, Kyla. RPCA is not dead and I thought that was in very bad taste. CatNipped Lighting a candle to express sorrow for people's losses is not in bad taste; it was meant well and maybe helped someone feel better. Christine I agree. I was surprised to see a candle lit for rpca, but it was not in bad taste. Candles are used for various purposes, and not just for death. MaryL |
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A Candle for RPCA
"CatNipped" wrote in message ... "Kyla =^..^=" wrote in message ... I do hope I am not overstepping my boundries, but I just put up a candle for us, RPCA because SO many folks here are going thru so many losses and troubles that I felt. compelled dto do it. It is done with much love and kindness. Love Kyla http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...?l=eng&gi=RPCA Sorry, but I really wish you hadn't done that, Kyla. RPCA is not dead and I thought that was in very bad taste. CatNipped Maybe you need to look and see that it gave 7 people a way to express their feelings |
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"MaryL" -OUT-THE-LITTER wrote in message
... "Christine Burel" wrote in message ... "CatNipped" wrote in message ... "Kyla =^..^=" wrote in message ... I do hope I am not overstepping my boundries, but I just put up a candle for us, RPCA because SO many folks here are going thru so many losses and troubles that I felt. compelled dto do it. It is done with much love and kindness. Love Kyla http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...?l=eng&gi=RPCA Sorry, but I really wish you hadn't done that, Kyla. RPCA is not dead and I thought that was in very bad taste. CatNipped Lighting a candle to express sorrow for people's losses is not in bad taste; it was meant well and maybe helped someone feel better. Christine I agree. I was surprised to see a candle lit for rpca, but it was not in bad taste. Candles are used for various purposes, and not just for death. MaryL I knew there would be those to jump to Kyla defense on this and I was not going to reply. However, you and I used to be friends (I still appreciate the Feliway plug-in you sent me when we were trying to integrate Hunter into our clowder). I get upset by Kyla's lighting a candle because she's making a mockery of it by lighting one for every little thing ("I hope I'm not overstepping myself, but I lit a candle for Matthew's hurt toe"). It *USED* to mean something, a way for the group, *AS* a group, to express deep sorrow - and Adrian used it quietly and with dignity to help the group overcome tragedy and get us through hard times. And yes, it *did* used to be only for a death in "our" family until Kyla came along and changed all that. Even if she would do it with sincerity instead of as an attention-getting act it would still rankle that she is making it into a meaningless act. A lot of people feel like, well if she likes it, it's a harmless thing to do - but it's not, it's just another way to change this group and its traditions from something that was rare and beautiful into just another squabbling newsgroup like every other out there, and *that's* what I resent. If she likes to light candles so much, then she can light them on her own and email all her email buddies here asking them to go light them - or even start a candle lighting group. I just wish she'd stop doing it here! Hugs, CatNipped |
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A Candle for RPCA
"CatNipped" snipped Sorry but Looks You got a serious problem today from your replies. I don't know if it is a bad day. You woke up on the wrong side of the bed or what. We all know you have health issues and are in pain so it can account for some issues. Please Deal with it and leave the group out of it. WE are not your targets to lash out at. |
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A Candle for RPCA
Thank you Kyla, that was a very nice thing to do.
"Matthew" wrote in message ng.com... "CatNipped" wrote in message ... "Kyla =^..^=" wrote in message ... I do hope I am not overstepping my boundries, but I just put up a candle for us, RPCA because SO many folks here are going thru so many losses and troubles that I felt. compelled dto do it. It is done with much love and kindness. Love Kyla http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...?l=eng&gi=RPCA Sorry, but I really wish you hadn't done that, Kyla. RPCA is not dead and I thought that was in very bad taste. CatNipped Maybe you need to look and see that it gave 7 people a way to express their feelings |
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A Candle for RPCA
This is no time to be arguing over something like this. I looked at several
of the groups on the candle site and they are for all sorts of things..New Babies, Illness, Weddings, all sorts of things. Please don't let us argue at a time when we are all feeling sad for the loss of a friend. "CatNipped" wrote in message ... "MaryL" -OUT-THE-LITTER wrote in message ... "Christine Burel" wrote in message ... "CatNipped" wrote in message ... "Kyla =^..^=" wrote in message ... I do hope I am not overstepping my boundries, but I just put up a candle for us, RPCA because SO many folks here are going thru so many losses and troubles that I felt. compelled dto do it. It is done with much love and kindness. Love Kyla http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...?l=eng&gi=RPCA Sorry, but I really wish you hadn't done that, Kyla. RPCA is not dead and I thought that was in very bad taste. CatNipped Lighting a candle to express sorrow for people's losses is not in bad taste; it was meant well and maybe helped someone feel better. Christine I agree. I was surprised to see a candle lit for rpca, but it was not in bad taste. Candles are used for various purposes, and not just for death. MaryL I knew there would be those to jump to Kyla defense on this and I was not going to reply. However, you and I used to be friends (I still appreciate the Feliway plug-in you sent me when we were trying to integrate Hunter into our clowder). I get upset by Kyla's lighting a candle because she's making a mockery of it by lighting one for every little thing ("I hope I'm not overstepping myself, but I lit a candle for Matthew's hurt toe"). It *USED* to mean something, a way for the group, *AS* a group, to express deep sorrow - and Adrian used it quietly and with dignity to help the group overcome tragedy and get us through hard times. And yes, it *did* used to be only for a death in "our" family until Kyla came along and changed all that. Even if she would do it with sincerity instead of as an attention-getting act it would still rankle that she is making it into a meaningless act. A lot of people feel like, well if she likes it, it's a harmless thing to do - but it's not, it's just another way to change this group and its traditions from something that was rare and beautiful into just another squabbling newsgroup like every other out there, and *that's* what I resent. If she likes to light candles so much, then she can light them on her own and email all her email buddies here asking them to go light them - or even start a candle lighting group. I just wish she'd stop doing it here! Hugs, CatNipped |
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