Ping Kyla

All of un are on here for a reason. To share cat stories, because we need
contact with others to stay reasonably sane, to just know someone is
listening.

We all have our "NEED" for the group or we wouldn't be here. I am SURE you
have your own "REASON"

I try to be patient but my patience has run thin with your "I am so sorry, I
didn't mean....".

Please have a good life and I pray you will find what you are needing to
make yourself whole. As of now, you are in my Kill File and I am sure I
will be in many for writing this.

"Granby" wrote in message
...
All of un are on here for a reason. To share cat stories, because
we need contact with others to stay reasonably sane, to just know
someone is listening.

We all have our "NEED" for the group or we wouldn't be here. I am
SURE you have your own "REASON"

I try to be patient but my patience has run thin with your "I am so
sorry, I didn't mean....".

Please have a good life and I pray you will find what you are
needing to make yourself whole. As of now, you are in my Kill File
and I am sure I will be in many for writing this.

Don't let yourself stress about it. Its your computer and your time
and you don't have to have a "good" reason for who is in your kill
file.

Personally I will kill file anyone that gets on my nerves or pushes my
buttons. Simply for my own peace of mind and so I'm not always
having to stop myself from posting unnecessary or snarky replies.
Often its more about me than it is about them.

Some posters I quite enjoy now spent some time there once upon a time.

Jo

"Granby" wrote in
:

All of us are on here for a reason. To share cat stories, because we
need contact with others to stay reasonably sane, to just know
someone is listening.

We all have our "NEED" for the group or we wouldn't be here. I am
SURE you have your own "REASON"

I try to be patient but my patience has run thin with your "I am so
sorry, I didn't mean....".

Please have a good life and I pray you will find what you are needing
to make yourself whole. As of now, you are in my Kill File and I am
sure I will be in many for writing this.



Granby, you're not the only one who ran out of patience. Well said.
Thanks.

Bobble

Granby wrote:
All of un are on here for a reason. To share cat stories, because we need
contact with others to stay reasonably sane, to just know someone is
listening.

We all have our "NEED" for the group or we wouldn't be here. I am SURE you
have your own "REASON"

I try to be patient but my patience has run thin with your "I am so sorry, I
didn't mean....".

Please have a good life and I pray you will find what you are needing to
make yourself whole. As of now, you are in my Kill File and I am sure I
will be in many for writing this.

I didn't go that far, I just skip over most of the posts that have her
signature! My advice to Kayla: Develop a thicker skin - the nature of
the internet being what it is, people often say things that come across
differently than what they mean to say. Much of human conversation
depends upon tone of voice and facial expression to communicate, so the
written word is sometimes misleading. In other words, if someone
misunderstands something you've written, FORGET IT! (If they were
really offended, no amount of "mea culpas" will help, and being
super-sensitive about their response can be more irritating than
placatory - as witness Granby's reaction, above.)

"EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque)" wrote:

Granby wrote:

I try to be patient but my patience has run thin with your "I am so
sorry, I didn't mean....".

In other words, if someone
misunderstands something you've written, FORGET IT! (If they were
really offended, no amount of "mea culpas" will help, and being
super-sensitive about their response can be more irritating than
placatory - as witness Granby's reaction, above.)

I have no idea what this is referring to. Is this from some very old
posts or something?

--
Joyce ^..^

(To email me, remove the X's from my user name.)

bastXXXette
"EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque)":

Granby wrote:

I try to be patient but my patience has run thin with your "I am so
sorry, I didn't mean....".

In other words, if someone
misunderstands something you've written, FORGET IT! (If they were
really offended, no amount of "mea culpas" will help, and being
super-sensitive about their response can be more irritating than
placatory - as witness Granby's reaction, above.)

I have no idea what this is referring to. Is this from some very old
posts or something?

I don't know, but now I'm sitting here with a broken heart,
because I thought the World of Granby. I give up!!!
Looks like Mosey won't be talking to Gramby's cats on the other group
Kyla
--wery sad

--
Joyce ^..^

(To email me, remove the X's from my user name.)

On Sep 1, 7:39*pm, "Kyla =^..^=" wrote:
bastXXXette

"EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque)":

Granby wrote:

I try to be patient but my patience has run thin with your "I am so
sorry, I didn't mean....".

In other words, if someone
misunderstands something you've written, FORGET IT! *(If they were
really offended, no amount of "mea culpas" will help, and being
super-sensitive about their response can be more irritating than
placatory - as witness Granby's reaction, above.)

I have no idea what this is referring to. Is this from some very old
posts or something?

I don't know, but now I'm sitting here with a broken heart,
because I thought the World of Granby. *I give up!!!
Looks like Mosey won't be talking to Gramby's cats on the other group
Kyla
--wery sad

Well, you know Mosey will always have Maggy May and WooToo to talk to
and you will always have me to talk to.

But you do make it harder on yourself than you have to. We all make
errors but you become too eager to patch things up. Relax, let things
go and come back later and resume the connections.

--
Will in New Haven

On Aug 31, 9:53*pm, "Granby" wrote:
All of un are on here for a reason. *To share cat stories, because we need
contact with others to stay *reasonably sane, to just know someone is
listening.

We all have our "NEED" for the group or we wouldn't be here. *I am SURE you
have your own "REASON"

I try to be patient but my patience has run thin with your "I am so sorry, I
didn't mean....".

Please have a good life and I pray you will find what you are needing to
make yourself whole. *As of now, you are in my Kill File and I am sure I
will be in many for writing this.

You couldn't get into my kill file, even if I HAD one. But this makes
me sad.

--
Will in New Haven

"Will in New Haven" ...
On Sep 1, 7:39 pm, "Kyla =^..^=" :
bastXXXette

"EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque)":

Granby wrote:

I try to be patient but my patience has run thin with your "I am so
sorry, I didn't mean....".

In other words, if someone
misunderstands something you've written, FORGET IT! (If they were
really offended, no amount of "mea culpas" will help, and being
super-sensitive about their response can be more irritating than
placatory - as witness Granby's reaction, above.)

I have no idea what this is referring to. Is this from some very old
posts or something?

I don't know, but now I'm sitting here with a broken heart,
because I thought the World of Granby. I give up!!!
Looks like Mosey won't be talking to Gramby's cats on the other group
Kyla
--wery sad

Well, you know Mosey will always have Maggy May and WooToo to talk to
and you will always have me to talk to.

Thank you Will

But you do make it harder on yourself than you have to. We all make
errors but you become too eager to patch things up. Relax, let things
go and come back later and resume the connections.

Will do.

--
Will in New Haven

Kyla