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a month has gone by
It has been exactly a month since Rusty went to RB on Oct 12.
I am just beginning to get used to not having him around. When I go fix supper, there is no Rusty sitting by the kitchen door patiently waiting to be fed. I got teary eyes whenever I looked at his urn of ashes sitting on his favourite window hammock. I miss my Rusty cat. |
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Winnie wrote in news:190a2ece-720e-4a98-a340-fce23ebcb6e4
@h21g2000vbh.googlegroups.com: It has been exactly a month since Rusty went to RB on Oct 12. I am just beginning to get used to not having him around. When I go fix supper, there is no Rusty sitting by the kitchen door patiently waiting to be fed. I got teary eyes whenever I looked at his urn of ashes sitting on his favourite window hammock. I miss my Rusty cat. Purrs continuing for your sad heart. Bobble |
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"Winnie" wrote in message ... It has been exactly a month since Rusty went to RB on Oct 12. I am just beginning to get used to not having him around. When I go fix supper, there is no Rusty sitting by the kitchen door patiently waiting to be fed. I got teary eyes whenever I looked at his urn of ashes sitting on his favourite window hammock. I miss my Rusty cat. Of course you do and it's important to have plenty of time to grieve for him. (hug) I found that ashes of my beloveds, I needed to bury or put away after a while, depending on how long I needed to grieve which is individual for each person. You gave Rusty a good life, you loved him. He was lucky, eh? But sometimes it's the end of their lives and there is nothing we can do about it. Tweed |
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On Nov 13, 11:44*am, "Christina Websell"
wrote: "Winnie" wrote in message ... It has been exactly a month since Rusty went to RB on Oct 12. I am just beginning to get used to not having him around. When I go fix supper, there is no *Rusty sitting by the kitchen door patiently waiting to be fed. I got teary eyes whenever I looked at his urn of ashes sitting on his favourite window hammock. I miss my Rusty cat. Of course you do and it's important to have plenty of time to grieve for him. (hug) I found that ashes of my beloveds, I needed to bury or put away after a while, depending on how long I needed to grieve which is individual for each person. You gave Rusty a good life, you loved him. *He was lucky, eh? But sometimes it's the end of their lives and there is nothing we can do about it. Tweed I plan to bring Rusty's ashes to be sprinkled in my mother's backyard, under a birch tree. But I can't do that till January when I go see her. I am thinking I should probably pack the urn in my carry-on bag so I don't see it Yes, even the vet said Rusty was lucky to have me. I did everything I could to take care of him. I spent a lot of time researching his medical problems. At least Rusty won't feel the cold this winter. He used to sit over the heat vents. He never did that until last winter when he was just skin and bones. And he won't have to put up with being boarded at the vet. He hated that, and rubbed his nose raw against the cage door. I felt so bad/ But with his poor health, I didn't trust anyone else to look after him while I was away. .. |
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On Nov 13, 7:36*am, Winnie wrote:
It has been exactly a month since Rusty went to RB on Oct 12. *I am just beginning to get used to not having him around. When I go fix supper, there is no *Rusty sitting by the kitchen door patiently waiting to be fed. I got teary eyes whenever I looked at his urn of ashes sitting on his favourite window hammock. I miss my Rusty cat. (((((((((Winnie)))))))))))))) You'll always miss our Rusty cat, but it gets better, I promise. Sherry |
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On 14/11/2010 12:36 AM, Winnie wrote:
It has been exactly a month since Rusty went to RB on Oct 12. I am just beginning to get used to not having him around. When I go fix supper, there is no Rusty sitting by the kitchen door patiently waiting to be fed. I got teary eyes whenever I looked at his urn of ashes sitting on his favourite window hammock. *hugs*. Can't say it gets 'better' so much as the sad days get further apart. Yowie |
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"Winnie" wrote in message ... On Nov 13, 11:44 am, "Christina Websell" wrote: "Winnie" wrote in message ... It has been exactly a month since Rusty went to RB on Oct 12. I am just beginning to get used to not having him around. When I go fix supper, there is no Rusty sitting by the kitchen door patiently waiting to be fed. I got teary eyes whenever I looked at his urn of ashes sitting on his favourite window hammock. I miss my Rusty cat. Of course you do and it's important to have plenty of time to grieve for him. (hug) I found that ashes of my beloveds, I needed to bury or put away after a while, depending on how long I needed to grieve which is individual for each person. You gave Rusty a good life, you loved him. He was lucky, eh? But sometimes it's the end of their lives and there is nothing we can do about it. Tweed I plan to bring Rusty's ashes to be sprinkled in my mother's backyard, under a birch tree. But I can't do that till January when I go see her. I am thinking I should probably pack the urn in my carry-on bag so I don't see it --------- I think that's a good idea, I found that looking at the urn brought it back too much. ---------- Tweed |
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Winnie wrote in
: On Nov 13, 11:44*am, "Christina Websell" wrote: "Winnie" wrote in message ... It has been exactly a month since Rusty went to RB on Oct 12. I am just beginning to get used to not having him around. When I go fix supper, there is no *Rusty sitting by the kitchen door patiently waiting to be fed. I got teary eyes whenever I looked at his urn of ashes sitting on his favourite window hammock. I miss my Rusty cat. Of course you do and it's important to have plenty of time to grieve for him. (hug) I found that ashes of my beloveds, I needed to bury or put away after a while, depending on how long I needed to grieve which is individual for e ach person. You gave Rusty a good life, you loved him. *He was lucky, eh? But somet imes it's the end of their lives and there is nothing we can do about it. Tweed I plan to bring Rusty's ashes to be sprinkled in my mother's backyard, under a birch tree. But I can't do that till January when I go see her. I am thinking I should probably pack the urn in my carry-on bag so I don't see it. (snip) ------ We all have our own ways of dealing with grief. I have to put away anything that reminds me of the cat who just died, otherwise I'd be crying and depressed all day. Thoughts of that kitty still come to me from time to time and I deal with them when they do, but to see reminders all the time is bad for me. Bobble |
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((((((Winnie))))))
-- Joy It takes a harsh and cruel drought to sort the weaker saplings out. It makes room for stronger trees; maybe that's what life's about. - John Williamson, Galleries of Pink Gallahs" "Winnie" wrote in message ... It has been exactly a month since Rusty went to RB on Oct 12. I am just beginning to get used to not having him around. When I go fix supper, there is no Rusty sitting by the kitchen door patiently waiting to be fed. I got teary eyes whenever I looked at his urn of ashes sitting on his favourite window hammock. I miss my Rusty cat. |
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On Sat, 13 Nov 2010 05:36:36 -0800 (PST), Winnie wrote:
It has been exactly a month since Rusty went to RB on Oct 12. I am just beginning to get used to not having him around. When I go fix supper, there is no Rusty sitting by the kitchen door patiently waiting to be fed. I got teary eyes whenever I looked at his urn of ashes sitting on his favourite window hammock. I miss my Rusty cat. Believe me, I know exactly how you feel: Kenzie has only been gone since Oct 23rd Every day, I miss seeing her in her favorite spots, and the way she mirped at me, when I would pass her in a darkened room, so I would know she was there, and so she would get some scritches. It's very, very hard, losing a beloved cat Only time can lessen the pain, unfortunately. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ ^..^ "Life without cats would be only marginally worth living." -TC, in loving memory of the unmercifully, relentlessly, sweet calico kitty, Kenzie. Every day was a treasure with Kenzie; I tried to treat them that way. There would only be so many, and now, there will never, ever, be any more How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven. - Robert Heinlein |
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